How to get to fall in love the girl? How to get to fall in love the woman?
Article gives answers to questions how to get to fall in love the girl or the woman? How to understand whether she loves you or it is simply in love? Distinctions between “to get to fall in love” and “tempt”. How to get to fall in love the ex-girlfriend?
To us children who ask us two urgent problems regularly come:
- How to me to understand whether she loves me? (Whether I am pleasant to her? Would she like me? There is a lot of options)
- How to me to get to fall in love the girl?
When we begin to sort a situation, in big percent of cases it turns out that the young man with the girl not that didn’t sleep, and didn’t even kiss. Met few times, or four years study with her, or this is the girlfriend of the sister of the aunt of his friend … not important. Important the fact that sex between them wasn’t yet, and for it she is already a queen, a dream of all his life.
Men, allow us to give to you couple of advice. They are simple, obvious to a disgrace, but for some reason many forget them.
Council the first: never confuse the words “get to fall in love” and “tempt”. And never you speak about love before sex. Not only that it is silly, so it also a lie. About what love can there be a speech if for you tells your desire to prisunut? Except that you lower chances to tempt her, so also you injure the girl, promise her what, most likely, won’t be executed. And to us then to rake cockroaches in her head.
Council of the second: never forget that except your woman also others exist. You aren’t obliged to sleep with them, but obliged to get acquainted, flirt, communicate. It will only strengthen your relations.
But we come back to the subject “get to fall in love”. So, if you with the girl had no sex, then this article not for you. You need to read how to tempt the girl.
If you have tempted the girl and want it to get to fall in love, then read further. This article just how from “I meet him, sometimes I have sex, but he is more anything serious” to become “that about whom I am crazy”.
For a start slightly theories. Whatever relations were, the one who has invested in them more appreciates them more. Also the paradox turns out: who is more interested in the relations, that also loses in them. That force “to invest” in the relations more often, the more he invests, the he more them appreciates, the it is simpler to induce him to do something else … It turns out, economists, a deflationary spiral have as if told.
Then that if you fill up the girl with gifts, to take her home, to solve her problems, is constant to think of her, your purpose to get her to fall in love is doomed not that on a failure, but on boomerang effect. YOU will fall in love with her, YOU will appreciate more and more your relations, and she will operate you. You will fall in love with her much stronger, than she.
I want to talk about how to make so that she has begun to think of you, to dream of a meeting with you, to give you gifts, to look after you. And for this purpose it is necessary to make everything with an accuracy on the contrary.
Keep in mind if during a seducing you too overpraise yourself if the girl paints for herself a picture of the rich successful millionaire, and upon you it will appear the poor student which only entertainment — to play games yes to drink beer with friends, she can a few … be upset. To construct the normal long relations and furthermore it will be more difficult to get to fall in love such girl. But nevertheless it is possible. Our general line will be in encouraging those actions of the girl which are pleasant to us, and to ignore those which aren’t pleasant to us. And tools we will use the following.
Yours communication with her
It will be good that she called and wrote you more often than you to her. Therefore, first, answer her always joyfully. It has to be pleasant to it to call you. Itself call and write her less often. Without fanaticism, of course, but pay attention to it. Ideal balance of yours with her communication — 2 her calls on 1 yours, 2 of her SMS on 1 yours. Only keep in mind: if she keeps ringing to you at those moments when it is inconvenient to you to speak, it isn’t necessary to answer joyfully her and to begin to stir with her.
Gifts it is good. All love gifts. But there are 3 subtle aspects. First, girls in respect of gifts think of pieces. From the point of view of emotions, it is better to present a floret, a toy and a card, than the main road a bouquet of flowers. Ridiculously, but it is the fact. Have him in a look. Secondly, give her such gifts with which she will decorate the room which will remind her of you every day. Their Dari so that she remembered them that gifts at her were associated with your some adventure. And thirdly, provoke it to give gifts to you. Say that it would be pleasant to you to receive from her a gift. And then present her the gift. If you make everything correctly, wait from her for an alaverda.
You have to have friends. As if you wanted to communicate only with the girl, you are obliged to communicate with other people. You shouldn’t belong for 100% to her. As if there was a wish for it. If you communicate only with her, strategically you will lose. You will become closed, you with her will have no new subjects for communication, there will be no new emotions. Spend with friends at least 2 days a week if you don’t live with the girl together, at least 2 days a week it isn’t necessary to see her. Remember, people very much love deficiency. But also at you with her has to be …
Spend time with the girl not only together, find to yourself the general company of friends. It is desirable that it were your friends, but not friends of the girl. With whom you will hang out, go on clubs, to play sports. Than — depends on your hobbies. The general company very strongly will rally you. When she communicates with the girlfriends from this company, they will surely remind her about you. It to us on a hand.
Be a good lover. Give her pleasure in a bed. Bad sex has ruined a set of couples. Don’t hesitate to experiment, try something new, at the same time always know two-three methods which with guarantee will bring her to an orgasm. She has to want you slightly more, than you her therefore sometimes refuse to her sex. But never punish her sex.
If someone says to me that “we never quarrel with her”, it is nonsense. There is no it that two persons had one opinion on any question. We sometimes quarrel and we argue even with the best friends not that with the girls. Each quarrel can either strengthen, or weaken your relations. The little girl so skillfully do you guilty in an occasion and without that eventually you are glad to confess to all sins and to apologize for everything if only she wasn’t brought. At first you will keep silent, then already agree, at last you it is already possible to write down in henpeckeds. And it doesn’t add love. Therefore watch closely each quarrel and don’t blame yourself where you aren’t guilty. Initially I would recommend you such position: I am always right and if I am not right, watch the previous point. It will teach you not to apologize on any trifle and to maintain in the relations a position from above.
To start these tools to you will be quite enough. If you want bigger, it is already separate conversation. And always remember that we are responsible for those who were tamed 😉
Thank you for your attention. Have a good time!